The Ultimate Crystal Gift Guide
Hello my friends!
‘Tis the season, but truth be told I get asked this question all year: “Which crystal should I get my for my friend who’s - - - …”
As a healer it’s always hard to say, because so much depends on the person and what kind(s) of energy they need.
At the same time, I can understand that if you’re new to crystals and wish to make a nice crystal gift to someone, it can be an overwhelming task.
So I thought it would be fun to put this guide together!
At the time I write this, I also like that buying a crystal for someone is not only a kind + healing gift, but you’re also supporting small businesses at the same time (I’m officially boycotting the big box stores - so many small businesses and families need our help surviving this economic crisis #jmho).
A couple of things to bear in mind about this Crystal Gift Guide: this is not an exhaustive list, these are just my top suggestions. And they’re just suggestions, I encourage you to always honor your intuition when buying crystals.
One more thing: I don’t sell crystals.
Now, before we begin….
Some tips on size, shape, type, etc.
Here are some of the more common formations you’ll find, and also some notes on their applied uses and sizes.
Tumbled stones:
These are stones that have been polished in a tumbler mixed with varying textures of grit. Tumbled stones tend to be smaller (generally ranging from .5” - 2” in diameter) and are comfortable to wear in a pocket, pouch (or bra!), and comfortable to hold.
They’re good for wearing for longer periods of time, and mixing together with other stones to form a crystal healing combination.
Tumbled crystals are the most common and cost-efficient crystals to get, and the most multi-purpose in terms of use.
Crystal points:
Crystals can be found naturally formed or mechanically shaped and polished into a point. There are single-termination points, meaning just one end is pointed, or double-terminated, meaning that both ends are pointed.
The crystal’s energy will be directed through the point, which is useful in crystal healing, divination, ritual, manifestation, and metaphysical workings.
People who tend more towards natural crystals, only, will appreciate a natural terminated point.
In general, the bigger the size, the more energy the crystal will direct.
Crystal spheres:
Crystal spheres are most commonly artificially shaped, but can be found in nature as well. They emit energy in all directions, so they’re particularly useful in rooms, on desks or table tops, etc. The larger the sphere, the farther its energy will emit into the space.
Crystal spheres are also comfortable to hold in the hand during meditation, but not very useful in crystal healing layouts.
Palm stones:
Palm stones are crystals that have been polished and shaped into a smooth, oval formation. People find them very soothing to hold or rub, so they’re an excellent choice for people who experience stress or anxiety (#prettymucheverybody).
They’re also very comfortable to wear, sliding easily into pockets without being bulky, and will lie evenly on the body in crystal therapy sessions.
They typically range in size from 1.5” - 3” in diameter.
Crystal clusters:
Naturally formed individual or smaller crystals that have all grown or clustered on a mineral or stone matrix. Clusters tend to be beautiful specimens, can range in size from 1” to meters wide, and are usually treasured pieces in a person’s collection.
Because they emit amplified crystal energy (due to the many points beaming energy out in multiple directions), clusters are great for placing in rooms, sacred spaces, on altars, in gardens, etc. They can be held in meditation, and placed on the body or under a therapy table in healing work. They’re not comfortable to wear, but are often used in jewelry as pendants or rings.
Crystal jewelry:
Crystals in jewelry do still emit therapeutic energy, though some kinds are more effective than others. Earrings tend to be too small, but if it’s a high frequency stone like danburite or quartz, it can still have an effect. Rings, pendants, and crystal beaded necklaces and bracelets (including ankle bracelets) tend to be the most popular.
Candle holders, lamps, etc.:
The general rule of thumb here is that the candle holders or lamps will emit the energy properties of the crystal from which they are made.
It has been found in scientific studies that heating Himalayan salt lamps helps to release negative ions into the atmosphere, helping to purify the air (and also energy, fyi). Crystal lamps have become trendy now, you can find them made from all kinds of crystals, including amethyst, rose quartz, and selenite. For the most part, beyond the crystal’s energy, they are decorative in their purpose.
Needless to say they’re good for use in a room or sacred space. I also think they make nice housewarming or nuptial gifts.
The Ultimate Crystal Gift Guide
Again, this is not meant to be an exhaustive list, these are just a few suggestions to help you get started. Always honor your intuition.
For crystal healing starter kit ideas, check out my Top 10 Must Have Crystals and my Top 10 Protection Crystals for ideas.
Here are my suggestions based on
Most popular - this is your no-fail choice
Sexy option - if you want to be a little different
More rare - a more unique and potentially powerful choice
Abundance
These three crystals help people feel more expansive, prosperous, positive and grateful. They also help to attract money.
Most popular - Green Aventurine
Sexy option - Moss Agate
More rare - Peridot
Animal Lover
These crystals help you to form a more empathic relationship to your animal companions.
Most popular - rose quartz
Sexy option - spirit quartz
More rare - infinite
Anxiety
These are my top picks for people who suffer from anxiety to help ease and soothe their feelings.
Most Popular - amethyst
Sexy option - blue lace agate
More rare - petalite
Baby
These crystals can create a soothing atmosphere in a baby’s room, and also increase the loving bond between parent and child. Celestite adds a protective, angelic vibe to the mix. I recommend clusters far out of reach, never a crystal for a child to hold or have in their crib as it’s a definite swallowing hazard.
I also have suggestions for psychic or sensitive children and for a baby room.
Most popular - rose quartz
Sexy option - blue calcite
More rare - celestite
Burnout
For your favorite coporate grunt, beloved small business person, generally “wired tired” friend, or that frazzled parent who’s been working from home, homeschooling, and lord only know what else this year - thank you, we love you! These crystals help to refresh and restore a person’s energy.
Most popular - red calcite
Sexy option - Ocean (orbicular) jasper
More rare - orange (peach) selenite
Creativity
These crystals help to boost creative flow, ideas, and clear through creative blocks (incl. writer’s block). They also help to reignite passion.
Most popular - carnelian
Sexy option - garnet (almandine)
More rare - fire agate
Empaths
These crystals are protective and comforting for people who are empathic or sensitive to energy
Most popular - black tourmaline
Sexy option - jet
More rare - chrysoprase
Expression
For that person in your life who’s new year’s resolution it is to speak up for themselves more, honor their truth or feeling, affirm healthy boundaries, and to share their ideas more (sometimes all of the above).
Most popular - blue kyanite
Sexy option - aquamarine
More rare - carnelian
Friendship
Sweet crystals to give in the spirit of friendship, or to heal or mend a relationship. Also good for love and forgiveness.
Most popular - rose quartz
Sexy option - mangano calcite
More rare - moonstone
Grief / Heartbreak
These crystals gently help to support the healing and recovery process from grief, heartbreak, or loss.
Most popular - mangano calcite
Sexy option - apache tear
More rare - rhodochrosite
Hospital Visits
These crystals, when worn regularly, help us to maintain overall balance and wellness. Note the word maintain, these are not magic bullets for illness! They are gentle enough not to be overpowering, and help support a slow but steady recovery.
Most popular - green calcite
Sexy option - orange calcite
More rare - tiger eye
House Blessing
For these crystals you will need larger sizes (at least the size of a softball, 5” minimum in diameter). Best placed at the center of the home, these crystals help emit happy, harmonious, and positive energy. Lamps and candle holders are also a good idea.
Most popular - amethyst cluster
Sexy option - selenite sphere
More rare - apophyllite cluster
Life Makeover
For that person you know who needs a major fresh start, these crystals help to shift your energy in a good fortune kind of way.
Most popular - moldavite
Sexy option - chrysanthemum stone
More rare - hiddenite
Meditators and Yogi’s
These crystals are spiritual yet help you to center and be more present and in tune with your body + the moment
Most popular - snowflake obsidian
Sexy option - elestial quartz
More rare - ajoite
Protective Vibes
Good for the person or home that needs some extra shielding from negative energy
Most popular - black tourmaline
Sexy option - labradorite
More rare - black obsidian
Stress Relief
For the one that needs to take a serious load off, these crystals help to reduce feelings of stress, clear the energy from your system, and help you feel more grounded and calm
Most popular - smoky quartz
Sexy option - tourmalined quartz
More rare - aragonite star cluster
Students
For the students on your list (young or old), these crystals help boost memory, increase the ability to learn, and improve clarity of thought and reason.
Most popular - sodalite
Sexy option - clear quartz
More rare - blue sapphire
Woke One (and the hopefully enlightened)
These crystals are powerhouses when it comes to activating and expanding consciousness
Most popular - Lemurian seed crystal
Sexy option - danburite
More rare - phenacite
Don’t forget crystal classes to compliment your gifts!
Once people have crystals they’re often looking for ways to learn more about them and deepen their experience. Check out a couple of my books on crystal healing as well as my Crystal Classes and Istaria Crystallis™, my Crystal Alchemy, Mediumship, and DNA Light Coding Program.
