How to Make Big Life Changes with Crystals

I was talking with a friend recently about the state of her life:

There were so many things that she wanted to change, that she was unhappy or dissatisfied with, but she didn’t know where to start?

Everything seemed to be a priority.

She felt that each issue needed to be changed if her whole life were to change.

And she needed change.

Have you ever experienced this feeling?

I have too, and here’s the thing I’ve learned: it’s not the individual parts that need to change to affect the whole, it’s the whole that needs to change to affect the parts.

The example that comes to me is that of the Hydra: a mythical beast in classical mythology that had multiple heads.

It could not be defeated because each time a head was cut off another would grow in its place.

In this scenario the “heads” are the multiple parts of your life that need change, and the “body” of the Hydra is your state of consciousness that created them.

Ergo: if you change your state of consciousness, your life, and the parts thereof (which you create through your consciousness) must also change.

“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.” - Albert Einstein

The challenge that arises for us in this process is our shadow self:

The defenses (ie: denial, resistance, excuses, subconscious commitments, limiting or negative beliefs) our shadow throws up to keep those heads in place.

The shadow self is why so many people, and humans collectively, have trouble creating and embodying real change.

It’s also why shadow self-healing is a significant area of study in my Pro Crystal Healer program:

I teach my students that anything that’s ailing a person, that is not purely physical in nature, can be found in the shadow.

The thing is I did years and years of deep shadow work, and while I could feel the mental + emotional healing happening within, I wasn’t experiencing the changes I felt I should have been in my life as a result.

That’s because I was missing a step, and this I learned through the work I teach in my “Istaria Crystallis®: Crystal Alchemy + DNA Light Coding” Program:

I also needed to do the spiritual work to shift + expand my state of consciousness.

The shadow healing resolves the wounds.

The shift in consciousness creates the Me that I wish to evolve into becoming.

This realization took me from a transitional period on 2016 where I felt lost, confused, defeated, broke, to now where I have two books published (and a third on the way), my own online Academy that trains powerful healers all over the world, and a life I look forward each day to living.

Here’s a crystal healing practice you can try:

First, take stock of yourself and your life and identify the areas where you desire change.

Then hold a shadow stone (suggestions: Apache tear, black obsidian, covellite) and sit with your soul. Ask yourself what pain or fear helped to create these parts of yourself and your life?

Apache tear (translucent obsidian)

Black obsidian

Covellite

Next hold a heart stone (suggestions: watermelon tourmaline, mangano calcite, rhodochrosite) and ask your soul to reveal to you how you can heal. Trust what resonates.

Watermelon tourmaline

Mangano Calcite

Rhodochrosite

Finally, as you take action towards healing, sit regularly while holding a consciousness activation stone (suggestions: scolecite, phenacite, Lemurian seed crystals) and let its energy flow through you.

Scolecite

Phenacite

Lemurian Seed Quartz

You don’t need to do anything more than sit quietly with a consciousness stone – the shift happens at a light level. In time it patterns right down to your DNA and into your cellular matrix.

Give it time – this is a process! And don’t try to force change, as I’ve found the exact opposite (surrender, allowing, receiving) is what eases + accelerates transformation.

Need my support? Consider training with me in Istaria Crystallis® or one of my shorter programs: The 7 Caves of Crystal Alchemy, Primer, and Crystalheim.

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